1) Choose a photographer with a body of work, which reflects a style of photography you love. When I find myself wanting to see picture after picture it’s a good sign I am drawn to that artist's work.

2) Get everyone on board. If you are looking to enjoy a shared positive experience it’s always a good idea to get all subjects involved in the planning process. It’s always best to discuss timing, expectations and plans with everyone involved. Have fun and get them vested in the process by asking for input from all members. If you are the planner and everyone says “whatever you want” then share with them your ideas and how it will involve them to make sure they are up for the adventure.

3) Decide what the focus of your session will be this way you can work accordingly around everyone’s schedules, needs and wishes. If the focus is to document life naturally at home, then think of something you naturally do together. If your focus is to share a piece of your life then work with your photographer to plan for the optimal time of day and discuss what will be necessary to achieve goals and the photographers approach to fulfilling that vision.

4) Less is more and keep it simple! With storytelling its best if it unfolds naturally. Narrow down key highlights of your story and keep it to one location and one focus, otherwise you will find yourself working off a photo list rather than allowing yourself to be present and true to the experience.

5) Trust the process. You hired a professional photographer to document your life. Sit back, relax and let them tell your story. During your session allow the artist creative freedom to design something beautiful for you. If your kids want to run, let them run, if they want to sit and read, let them sit and read. Your photographer will know how to guide the session, regardless if they smile or don’t smile, and be prepared for the unexpected. There is beauty and magic in the unplanned.